Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I never thought in a million years I would be in this position laying here posting this. I'm new to this. My boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. It was incredible at first but we rushed. Deep down I know this. Within weeks he flipped a switch and became angry, controlling and manipulative. I am not one to stand for this, so I fought back. Things began to take a huge turn and he would call me every name in the book, ignore me for hours and only he could decide when we could be okay. We constantly fought every day about little things which turned into hours of Figting. Well we finally broke Up he did with me because of his fights. He has made me feel like it has been me, that I'm the one who started everything, that I was to emotional when we fought and I was annoying. We have been broken up for 3 weeks yet two days we ran in to each other and he told me he loved me he wanted to fix it.. I fell for it. The next morning he told me he loved me again yet three hours later he said it was all a mistake & I'm a poison in his life.. The more he pushes me away the more I cling. I love hi and he has told me he wanted to marry me yet now he says he hates and wishes me to die. I have always felt like I have been able to pull myself together but it's different this time. I feel destroyed, dirty and defeated from everything he has said to me. The worst part is I still want him I feel gravitated towards him. If anyone has felt this way, any words would be appreciated. I feel so alone, and I don't want to worry my family or friends.
Take this time to really think about what you want for yourself. What are your deal breakers and have a clear picture of what you expect from that person. Remember your not being picky, your putting yourself first. Be strong and love yourself.