Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
IF you met a man going thru a divorce, with two kids, and KNEW everything about him, (according to him) like:
His property had a lein on it cause he didnt pay the assessments,
he owed close to $100,000.00 to a "friend",
his bills are never paid on time,
he doesnt make very good money at his won business,
he hasnt filed for taxes since 2001,
he lied about his finances to his stbx wife,
he bounced over 100 checks in a two month period,
his water is cut off almost every six months,
his heat was cut off when his kids lived there,
his house was in foreclosure more than five times since 2005,
would you still date him?
Im just wondering why this woman is telling me she knows EVERYTHING about my stbx and is still with him.
Im not obsessed, just wondering what the general consensus is:)
His property had a lein on it cause he didnt pay the assessments,
he owed close to $100,000.00 to a "friend",
his bills are never paid on time,
he doesnt make very good money at his won business,
he hasnt filed for taxes since 2001,
he lied about his finances to his stbx wife,
he bounced over 100 checks in a two month period,
his water is cut off almost every six months,
his heat was cut off when his kids lived there,
his house was in foreclosure more than five times since 2005,
would you still date him?
Im just wondering why this woman is telling me she knows EVERYTHING about my stbx and is still with him.
Im not obsessed, just wondering what the general consensus is:)
Ultimately, I suspect rescuers have co-dependency issues of their own.
I know most woman, and some men, think they can change the one they 'love'. Yeah, she loves him!
Thanks for the concern:)
Or
B) ignorant AND stupid