Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I are separated, but he is still living in our home. About a year ago, we booked a cruise for this September. I asked him about it a few months back and he told me to just leave that week open (I care for my elderly parents and have a lot of appointments to schedule for them). I didn't mention it again until a few days ago when I saw a large sum of money transferred out of our account...and right after my disability deposit came in. I asked him about it that evening and he said he paid off the cruise. He then told me he does not feel we are in a place to be vacationing together -- essentially he has now paid double fare so he can go alone. (His aunt and stepmother are also going and have their own cabin). I told him that it was our trip and either both of us go, or neither go. I don't even know if I have any recourse regarding this situation. I would have put him out months ago, but my lawyer advised me to keep him under my roof for as long as possible. (We are approaching our 9th anniversary and she wants to ensure I hit the 10 year mark). There was nothing of significance that caused our current situation -- he simply states that he is not "happy" and refuses to continue counseling. (We have been in counseling for 5 years originating from issues with his daughter). I am just trying to keep my head on straight during all of this and not fly into a complete rage...that certainly won't help anything. Thanks for listening...any advice is welcome.
And I might give up on marriage counseling after 5 years if nothing improved either. That sounds like a dead horse.
You can try to join a support group that you can meet in person, it might help your marriage to improve. My sister had issues in her marriage and support group is helping her to go through the mental scars she had. She is getting better little by little. I hope things will be alright in your family, please update us. I pray that you will have peace as you go through this and your marriage will be restored. God bless.