Gosh, now I don't know which way to vote.....I'm so confused!

Shhhhhh

I appreciate it, Heave. But it's time to go.

Maybe I can just vote for Pasta for president instead.....?

Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, hey, hey - goodbye.

Pasta...In all seriousness...If you don't want to be on here just log off for a while...but a lot of us would like to see you come back after while and spend some time with us because you have become a friend to a lot of us. Whereas I want you to be happy, I don't want you to do something that you could end up regretting later on. We would like for you to stay around.

I agree with Heave. So you've grown and found new love. So what... you and Amy are the inspiration to us ones w/o love and for those who aren't sure if they want love. Your thought out mind crap that you post gets people thinking. You have fun and give the best advice to those in need. There aren't many who are where you're at and well, it's your duty to let the new ones know it will be okay, things do get better. You can give advice out and have proof with Amy that you do and will move on to be happy. I'm just saying... I hope all that made sense. I'm not rereading it.

Should I make a link to not band Pasta?

Pasta you know how I feel about you. You were one of my first friends over a year ago that was there to help me through so much pain. I know you do things in your own way and time. You have helped so many on here, plus you add the spice that is so needed. But all good things must sometime come to an end. Love you

LOL, Kelly....."thought out mind crap"

I don't get the whole I'm leaving thing. Can't a person just not log onto DS?

I'm just saying Vee.. he comes up with the smartest crap that just seems so thought out... I don't understand half of it, but I know it has a good meaning... Sometimes I have to google the words, but don't tell.

besides that...his sence of humor helps lighten things up here

Still laughing....I love the way you put things, Kelly :) And I have to look things up, too.....shhhhhh...(he's like a genius or something)

WTH, I'm starting to get a complex, my wife left. I get a new job and the head engineer puts his notice in the next day, now I join DS and Pasta leaves.

mumbling to myself: mumble mumble mumble

It's several different things:

1) I have found that you can have all the answers in the world, but what really matters is the choices you make. And those choices are yours and yours alone.

2) I've been on here for over a year. The very first journal I ever made on here was about using this as training wheels, not a permanent part of my life. This may be selfish on my part, but leaving this place is part of what I see as putting a period on the end of my healing.

3) Yes, things are great between me and Amy. But that's not why I feel like I need to go. This is about my personal growth.

4) You will find that as much as people say things or don't on the boards, it's the people who make this place great, good, or horrible. Above all else, it's the people you have met and will meet on here that make this community amazing.

It's not selfish... We get it, we just don't like it.. I hope I didn't make that impression...