
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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He stopped all communication for the longest time yet, after me trying to communicate with him and him raging against it. So I don't attend our mutual AA meetings since so I don't have to see him and go over yet another recociliation/humiliation/breakup/remorse cycle. So now my phone is ringing. It seems he shared with others, why don't they call me, that my feelings are hurt that no one checks up on me. What right does he have to give out my number, or to speak for me? I need closure, not to have people who have no idea what the story is between us to want me to show up somewhere that is not at this time therapeutic for me because of his presense. Why is he telling other people they should call on me and check on me when he won't. It hurts. It feels like a slap in the face. I don't want people reaching out to me on his instigation. What do you think of this? It's like he won't call me but he'll tell other people to call me and lure me back into his world, I don't know. I don't like my # given out, he knows this. I don't like him to share about me, he knows this. I don't need him announcing in public how I "feel" whether it's true or not. I don't want people calling because of what he says. I'm upset and have cried. It is not a good reason to hear from old aquaintances, that my ex who won't speak to me tells them they need to check up on me when he himself won't. Please if someone can understand this or make sense of it please fill me in, thanks.
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Think through a way to tell people nicely, without buying into his mess, that you are fine, that you did try to stay in contact with him because you had a very close relationship and wanted it to end amicably, but he was unable to reciprocate, so you cooperated and respected that by leaving the group and you've found another group and you doing just peachy! You wonder why he is so concerned - perhaps he is not moving on as well as it seemed. I'm doing fine - but I wonder how he is, if he is telling people these tales about me - do keep an eye on him please, but don't mention me. I'd like to continue moving on, and I think he should too. But thanks for calling. Goodbye!