Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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aggiedolphin823 01/05/2009

So the more time I have spent on here and more discussions I have read I kinda feel sometimes like I am the odd one out and out of place. It seems a majority of the people on here are either divorced or in the process and that doesn't apply to me as I was never married. Don't get me wrong I have enjoyed the support and it does seem to help that I'm at least not alone, so am I wrong in feeling out of place here and it's just cause my emotions are all jacked up?

GeocacherNY 01/05/2009

eh, could be. if you feel out of place, maybe you are, otherwise you wouldn't feel that way ?

deleted_user 01/05/2009

i do think divorce is different than breaking up, but it can be similar. Hang in there... take what you can use, and leave the rest.

deleted_user 01/05/2009

you arent out of place. a break up is a break up, just some are more complex than others, like divorce, ugly divorces, abandonment, etc.

But we are all here for the same basic thing and that is because a relationship ended.

You might even learn some stuff not to take with you into your next relationship.

So sit back, relax, enjoy, eat some ice cream (and if its coffee ice cream, pass it, I'm jonesin)

Jenna7873 01/05/2009

I've never been married either... it IS a Breakup and Divorce forum, so......

deleted_user 01/05/2009

You don't have to be married to be here.

A break up of a relationship is just as valid a reason to be here.

You are still going through the pain, dividing up possessions, moving to a new life without him.

Hang in there.

aggiedolphin823 01/05/2009

Thanks everyone that makes me feel better. I really am glad I found this place - this is way harder than any previous break up. We were living together and also no previous relationship has ended with him in jail and me getting subpoenas for court dates.

And soontobex if I see some coffee ice cream I will send it your way. :)

deleted_user 01/05/2009

emotions are jacked for one thing..

a break up can be just as heartbreaking..if you want to be here we can help

deleted_user 01/05/2009

hell bells when i arrived/found this place..i didnt think i *was like them*

but i found out my story was absolutely no different than anyone elses..and they talked me thru the most painful thing in my life

pemdcat 01/05/2009

so sorry you are here but wwelcome, all of us have lost that someone whether married or not its' still a break up....same boat just a different sea...you will find both here divorcing and break ups....as the others have said take what helps leave the rest...

awakendwoman 01/05/2009

It doesn't matter if you were married or not...any breakup is painful. No one ever wants to get their heart broken. Just hang in there and keep the faith that life will be good again for you.... (((hugsss))))))

deleted_user 01/05/2009

SCORE!

deleted_user 01/05/2009

Hey Aggie Ive never been married either, but they dont boo me out of here. They need me LoL

Stay..Youre good

aggiedolphin823 01/06/2009

Thanks road I appreciate it :)

deleted_user 01/06/2009

aggie, Ive never married either, but it doesn't mean that our pain isn't the same. We need support to, so dont feel like you dont belong. This is a good place to be when you've gone through what you have, to get the support and love you need x

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