This place is a haven...healing from everything and why stop a good thing? It's a condiment of my life.

I think a breakup of this magnitude stays with you for a very long time. If you find comfort or need to come back after the fact, so be it.

2 cents adds up! :)

I like it here....

This website has been good for me. I came here thinking my husband and I would attempt to reconcile (at least I believe that is what I wanted). I've since learned he cheated; is shacking up with some woman (typed whore first but erased it); filed for divorce; and I'm now trying to get through with the process. I'm much better now. While I'm still ashamed that my marriage failed and I still feel bad that I had a part in it, I also know that I did not leave and I did not shack up with someone. I am good. I still have questions and problems, but more than anything I want my child to be happy. I was with some family this weekend and they remarked that my son looked more relaxed than they had ever seen him. I guess my stbx was right about moving out so that we don't fight and argue in front of our child. Life has to be lived.

THis site is horrible LoL

I have healed a great deal. I still need D.S. Even if I don't post my emotions and feelings, I find that others feel the way I do and they are brave to post their thoughts and worries. I would hope one day that I can help others the way you all have helped me. Even if it's stupid threads to just get a giggle.... ;)

Still addicted after all these years.

DS has fundamentally changed my life. I've found peace, clarity, and Jen here.

Without DS, who knows what shape I'd be in. I still need to come here, read, and share.

Cute pic Tangled & Jen! :-) Diemjs...I can't go off in my Fucktard ranting as I do outside of here....people would think I'm crazy! LMAO! :-) (Kidding!...I do it, sometimes outside of DS.) To tell the truth, I'm still healing and finding my way really. Some days still better than others...but a helluva lot better than when I got here. :-) And if I help in any way...even if it is to give someone a laugh on a bad day too so be it! When I got here, I think I went in to every thread saying, "Do you know where I can chat?"....and I got, "Just keep doing what you are doing!" lol....Eventually got it! I HOPE to meet some DS peeps in the future....they've gotten me through a tough year! (((((THANKS PEEPS!!!!))))

I come here to try and help people. I have been through a lot and have some good advice to give.

I am mostly over my divorce, but I am more than happy to help those that are not.

I think while I have accomplished my original intent of coming here, that I will always find DS a great site for everyday support through life in general.

I find I try to support people more then getting support for myself. But I also find that in doing that, I relate to what some others go through and that I am able to learn and grow in many areas within myself and my life in general from it.

Me!

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I'm still in the throws of hell-this is where I need to be!

i'm still here, although i don't post much anymore, i do journal and appreciate replys and the support i get through that. i love to see how far all of us have come. and i want to be able to support the newbies as i once was one of them. once in a while i still question why and how. but, then i come here and find some words of wisdom or a comment and it helps to remind me, i'm doing great, i'm worth a healthy happy relationship. helps me to stay the course. i'm worth it.

I know even tho I feel better, and am doing so much better, I couldnt do without this place.

Its nice to know you all are here.