I think in all this that both Z and Red are important. Both have given great advice, a warm hug, kisses on Tuesday. Z has the opportunity to come back, if she so chooses. If not I will miss her dearly. For Red, that is not possible. I just wanted to give a shout out to her, as well. I know this isn't written well or really what I WANT to say, sorry, my migraine is taking over. Thought I would throw this out there for anyone who may want to share with her. I am sure she will get the messages.