Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Rman 10/30/2010

Fluffed up and shit...

deleted_user 10/30/2010

Hi,
How about pillows? is that what you mean Rman?

Rman 10/30/2010

I really don't know what I mean...lol!

deleted_user 10/30/2010

Hi,
Well, there's also the natual pillows that women have. I love those too. lol

deleted_user 10/30/2010

The first day of a snow storm

deleted_user 10/30/2010

Just gotta say - Cheetohs cheese puffs - hits both fluffy and shit!
But can't open a bag or I'm a goner

Rman 10/30/2010

fluffy ds support...

just tell me what the fuck is wrong with me and what I am blinded by...

deleted_user 10/30/2010

I aleady did that for you Rman, more than once, take notes next time!

deleted_user 10/30/2010

It is fluffy isn't it...

If I understand some previous posts, you love someone that treats you like shit. Does that sum it up well enough?

Have you considered maybe you deserve better? Have you taken her endless supply of money away? I suspect she might change her tune.

Fluff, Fluff, Fluff

deleted_user 10/30/2010

what Anne and Phishy said.

Rman 10/30/2010

So turning off love is what button again?

deleted_user 10/30/2010

Can't turn off love but you can demand to be treated better Rman

deleted_user 10/30/2010

No button of sorts to turn off, which it was that easy, but what happens is that you have to do something for your own health to move forward.

I believe your wife has you where she wants you, as long as you keep going on providing for her - why would she do anything else.

Hurts like hell, after 20 some years of marriage who figured it would end the way it did. No choice on my part but picking up the pieces and gluing it back piece by piece.

You have to be ready for the next move Rman - you can't keep going the way you are - not good for you, or your kids when it comes down to it

wishing you all the best

deleted_user 10/30/2010

there's no cure, or substance to treat that one unfortunately -- I tried, gawd knows I tried

deleted_user 10/30/2010

I loved my ex dearly and left him because he treated me like shit. I don't think I will ever get back to the person I trying so hard to be but I do know I made the right choice. You will get through this without magic buttons. When you have had enough you will do what is best for you and your kids.

Why do you keep enabling her to do this?

If you let something go and it comes back to you....

deleted_user 10/30/2010

The King says:

Best type of fluffy...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82utG7Q3G_k

I got coupons.

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