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only2bestrong 12/08/2015

Seeing this guy for 9 months. At first we agreed we didn't want a relationship but now I have feelings for him and when he gets ready for a relationship I would like him to give me a chance. Last week at a sporting event some girl shows up. Of course I freaked out on him thru text a d said he could of warned me. This whole time he has told me he doesn't take women around his son and she shows up.
He didn't talk to me all weekend and he blocked me on Facebook. After explaining my side he understood and said he was sorry. Now he just wants to be friends. Now I think he was only using me for sex.
Taking it very very hard

refurb 12/08/2015

i'm sorry
the only thing to take hard is that someone used you
he sounds like a creep
using his kid as a shield

don't ever give him another chance to use you again

only2bestrong 12/08/2015

Thank you. I am just so hurt and feel dirty and used. He is 45 and the girl that showed up is only 22. He swears they are just friends. I drove by his house Sunday night the day he blocked me and there was another girl there again he says it was an old friend.
I just feel like maybe he is looking for a relationship but I wasn't good enough

only2bestrong 12/11/2015

Been at a sporting event all day and he set away from us. I can't help but looking over there. I would so let be for him to call or text or even act like he is bothered by it. But he doesn't

Razor91 12/11/2015

You deserve better than to be treated like the way he is doing to you, you are good enough, it's him that can't see it. Hope you're okay.

only2bestrong 12/11/2015

He walked right by and didn't say anything. That hurt

ThingsiExplore 12/11/2015

Sorry this is happening to you... Relationships are tricky and delicate things sometimes. Hope you feel better soon. Rejection sucks in any way shape or form. Try to find somebody else if that is what you want to do (have a man in your life). Spend time with friends and family if they are supportive people. Go out and have a good time with them or take a trip. You need support and distractions now. Good luck!

texicallie 12/12/2015

When you and this guy initiated a sexual relationship, what were the conditions? Was it a committed, exclusive relationship?

2bhealed 12/13/2015

So sorry you had to experience that. Try reading act like a lady think like a man. I was astounded by the mans point of view and wish I had known that when I was eighteen. Hugs

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