Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I swear every time i do something or visit a place where me and my ex-wife spent time i can't help but remember her and the memories are now of course tainted. I feel nothing but pain and depression. I find i have to reinvent myself and form new habits. She basically shit all over who i am as a person. I find myself doubting everything i do now. My peers think i'm nuts to have that kind of thinking. Many have been through divorce already and say to just shrug it off, and say she was just mean, and insensitive. Anybody else having the same problem and if so what works to overcome the rejection if you have managed to do so. Counselling helped at first then it didn't anymore. I just can't shake it.
Now I am making my own new routines and doing much better.
Good luck...
Over the years it will get better and is getting better for me
But there are always fresh places that trigger memories and feelings from the time I was there with my EX
Every place has an attachment, thought, memory. feeling
try to make new memories at those places
and over the years the old ones should start to fade