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diemjs
Most of you have read my posts...or even my profile and journals.
My stbx contacted me today about the parade our town is having tomorrow. Asked me is OM is going, and I say yes. He mumbles something about thats where he was last year and says goodbye.
I want to know why does he always tell me its over, we are divorced in his mind, and then say stuff like that? I keep telling him over and over that I would've done anything in the past 7 months to try and fix things, no matter how it ended up, with us together or apart. I still think we could use counseling. Then he just tells me its over no if ands or buts.
However, he continuously brings up what I did to our family. I broke up the family. And goes over the same old stuff again and again. What does he want from me?
I have now started to live my life without calling him, crying to him or reaching out to him any more, every other day. Is it that he thinks I am moving on and cant handle that or what? I am so confused!
Any ideas, thoughts or suggestions would be very greatful.
Thanks
My stbx contacted me today about the parade our town is having tomorrow. Asked me is OM is going, and I say yes. He mumbles something about thats where he was last year and says goodbye.
I want to know why does he always tell me its over, we are divorced in his mind, and then say stuff like that? I keep telling him over and over that I would've done anything in the past 7 months to try and fix things, no matter how it ended up, with us together or apart. I still think we could use counseling. Then he just tells me its over no if ands or buts.
However, he continuously brings up what I did to our family. I broke up the family. And goes over the same old stuff again and again. What does he want from me?
I have now started to live my life without calling him, crying to him or reaching out to him any more, every other day. Is it that he thinks I am moving on and cant handle that or what? I am so confused!
Any ideas, thoughts or suggestions would be very greatful.
Thanks
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