Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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terrondt 11/04/2013

My girlfriend and i officially broke up this past weekend. it was a long time coming for those whom read my posts over the past months. its for the best. we will make the only thing we have in common(our son jaxon) has BOTH his parents for his upbringing and make the best out of it. she always said she will not use our son as a pawn or wedge between us. we will see. stay tuned my support friends.

deleted_user 11/04/2013

Best of luck. Hope you can deal with each other rationally and kindly for your sons sake.

terrondt 11/05/2013

thanks blondi33. i will try my best on my part. hope she does the same.

deleted_user 11/05/2013

As long as you both stay focused on doing what's best for your son, you should be OK.

terrondt 11/05/2013

thanks cheryt, thats all that matters now. our little one jaxon.

deleted_user 11/05/2013

Good for you to move on a positive note, keep your positive attitude when she does back on her words. They would be times when the two of you would not see eye to eye Just remember its all about your son now .

ChiTownBear 11/05/2013

hey man, sorry to hear, but as you said, you kind of thought it would come to this.

stay strong and let us know what you need. I hope she honors that statement of not using the kid as a pawn.. people do crazy things sometimes tho. So just keep to that and don't you fall.

deleted_user 11/05/2013

Terrondt, that's all you can do. Avoid her drama as much as you can. Sometimes I do good at biting my tongue, sometimes I just feel like I have to say something, then usually just regret it. He doesn't listen anyways so I'm saving my breath. And my kids some stress

terrondt 11/06/2013

Thanks everyone for the support. Best support group on the net

JennsJo 11/06/2013

Best of luck to you! Sometimes the hardest decision is usually the best one for us.. Hope you start healing and feeling better soon : )

llmt 11/06/2013

Hugs and take care of yourself and make sure your child isn't brought into the tension...easier said than done, sometimes. Try to do something good for you, in all this and stay busy. Time to focus on how you will see and raise your child.

deleted_user 11/06/2013

Hi terrondt: I know you from the other group on D.S. It sounds like both of you have made the right decision. Good luck.

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