Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I posted on here about a month ago.. my gf told me her ex contacted her and she realized she still had feelings for him, and wasn't sure what to do. She basically stopped contacting me.. I fought, put together a box of memories from our dates and put it on her doorstep, would write sweet texts about 2 a week.. but she never responded.. finally yesterday she tells me she has decided to give it another go with the ex.
it hurts being the rebound and not even knowing it. We had such great times and she always said I was the best guy, etc, etc.
it extremely hurts.. I wish I would have just stopped after she said she still had feelings and maybe I would be feeling better. I loved this girl- first time I've opened up in a long time because of the fear of this happening f again. I've lost 20lbs this month, my work is suffering, I barely sleep and can't stop thinking about her and the good times. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Joining a breakup Group. Grief is what you
have going on is my guess and your disbelief.
It does eventually pass, the best thing to do is
to work on yourself and Heal. Often we have
Our own stuff/issues that have contributed To
the end of the relationship that we need to Face
and look at.
You will survive this, as all of us do eventually and
You will have moved thru the grief, rejection, betrayal,
hurt and pain. Time takes time as hard as it is, HUGS