Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have come a long way since my first marriage that taught me nothing but control and abuse. I don't think some people understand the affects that living with someone who tries to control every aspect of your life. This was my first real relationship so I had 8 years of training in the wrong way to have a relationship. It doesn't help that I came trained for my 2nd marriage and finally one day all the crap just started spilling out of me...all the garbage...all the hatred and I started to see there was something wrong with this kind of relationship thanks to you all here. I definitely need counseling for myself so as the title states "off to see the wizard". I know I'll be able to trust again one day but I just wonder when I'll get to be a healthier me. I'm so looking forward to this. It must feel extremely good once you find it. I caught a glimpse of it and said I want this and so my journey begins. It isn't anyone else decision for me anymore. I finally made a decision on my own for once in my life without influence and when you can recognize what you need for yourself is when you know you are on a road to real recovery.
for you charliegirl.
You will be terrific and I bet it won't take too long for you to get there.
You have the perfect attitude to make it happen.
Good luck!!!!
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At first you feel good when you notice in an encounter or dialog, you made a different choice, then when you keep doing it, you feel better and better. Soon enough there's a lot of miles between who you were and who you are.
Many many hugs.