So from the last time I posted I have put in an application with an apartment complex because I told her she needed the house more than I did because she needed a place for here kids.  They are already settled in there and have friends that live by, there is no point for here to leave and move the lids away from that when there is no reason for a almost newly single man to have a 4 bedroom house to himself.  She asked where I was going to go even after I had already had a short conversation with here stating that from this point on we would only talk when it was absolutley needed.  I did however calmly tell her that I found a studio apartment for myself and I am working on moving out by the end of the month.  Yes I am still living with here but I have moved out of what used to be our room into the garage which was converted into a computer room.  Is a lay there on my small mattress on the floor next to the dogs last night she knocks on the door and opens it and asks if I can be out by this Friday.  I again calmly stated to her that I would be in contact witht the apartment complex today and find out what I could.  On my lunch break today while I was on the phone with them she decides to text me asking me again.  At this point I am starting to get frustrated.  She wants to have nothing to do with me or so she says but then she wants to know everything I am doing.  I'm so confused.  I did a few breathing exercises to calm myself back down and told her that the apartment complex would not let me move in till the 31st of this month and I appreciate the fact that you want to know what is going on with me but I think it is wise from this point on that we have nothing to do with each other.  I told her she made the choice to end the relationship and I am giving her what she wanted.  I also stated that just because we used to be married that does not give her the right to know what I am doing ever second of every day anymore.  She gave up that right when she decided she didn't want to be together anymore.  I told her that I am doing what I have to do to move on for myself more than her and that I would like to be left alone.  I feel bad saying these things to her but I truly believe if she wanted to get back together she would have tried harder.  I am just moving on with my life and doing what I gotta do for me.