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Now I know why he always called me babe

rose77
rose77
My daughter had to call her father because he still has not straightened out her health insurance, and she needs him to help her. When she called him she heard him on his other phone "hold on a second babe" so now I am thinking that's how he gets away with not calling anyone by the wrong name, even me since he always called me babe. Idiot. Anyway he once again did not listen to her concerns and since it is sooo important she stays on her medication he has to step up. Well let me tell you all his babes are his priority since this health insurance problem has been going on for a month. I feel bad for my daughter she is not stupid and feels like she is just not important enough. I am not on the insurance so he has to take care of this. Jerk.
hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560
What a fucktard! Poor kid needs her meds and he's too busy on the phone with his "babe."

How old is your daughter? Anything the courts can do?

So sorry he's being a terrible dad.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I love the word Fucktard, it sums this guy exactly....
Karenhopeful
Karenhopeful
I also married a fucktard and know the frustrations!

I know the day is coming (may be years away) when my children realise what their father is and is not. Very hard.

If your daughter is a minor, I agree with seeing if the courts can do something.
rose77
rose77
My daughter is now 21 so he is not legally libel, but you know what she wants him to step up and do what he should do as a dad. Believe me she knows what he is at this point, and she keeps saying she is through with him, but I think she secretly hopes that he will come through. but because of all the disappointments she has no respect for him and really does not like him. I texted him and told him that she knows he brushed her off because he was on his other phone (I did not mention what she heard) I said that she is having a hard time right now and that he needs to make her a priority. He still did not get what I was trying to tell him that he needs to talk to her give her some of his time. But of cause he does not get that he just comes back to me with, I said I will call the insurance company. I wanted him to talk to her tell her it will be alright to give her more then 5 min of his time. Since she knows and always has know that he chose the other women over his marriage she takes it that he also chose them over her and her brother since that is what he shows. He just does not get it. I did not answer his e mail back to me because I would have just said its just so sad that you did not get what I was trying to tell you, and it will be your loss. And yes he is a fucktard!