Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
so, I'm on this group about a million years, people urging me to get a divorce, people yelling at me,
so, finanally, I am getting the divorce, and do I feel goo?
No...I want to die
To start all over again, gives me the chills
another man touching me where only a husband should touch makes me a tramp
no family, no friends, just nothing.
Health deteriated. May need down the road hip replacement, hysterectomy, another stupid mamogram....(they told me to come back for a second look) having to go do dentist for an absess that I was actually screaming, so tooth is being pulled)
living alone is horrible.....I lived most of my life, it goes downhill from now on, and I will be all alone....
so, finanally, I am getting the divorce, and do I feel goo?
No...I want to die
To start all over again, gives me the chills
another man touching me where only a husband should touch makes me a tramp
no family, no friends, just nothing.
Health deteriated. May need down the road hip replacement, hysterectomy, another stupid mamogram....(they told me to come back for a second look) having to go do dentist for an absess that I was actually screaming, so tooth is being pulled)
living alone is horrible.....I lived most of my life, it goes downhill from now on, and I will be all alone....
At this point maybe you can only see darkness b/c you are unable to see the light for what it can be. Life ends up being what we make of it, Peppe, with the good and bad all mixed in there. You can either look at this as a fresh start, or you can wallow and stay stagnant in the misery it sounds like you have already endured. In the end its all about choices. Whether its reaching out to others and making new friends or doing what we can to make the most of this life we do have. What is your choice going to be? ((hugs))
Whoa...if you're divorced, then it's not your husband's anymore. Don't label yourself...people out there already do enough of it, we don't need to do it to ourselves.
Husband will be out in SIXTEEN days. Scary, who will help me out, because I am a dependent person., and my health is horrible.
I was told I need a hysterectomy, wondering if it could wait, at this time, I want no medical proceedures. Had a horrible dizzy spell today, prob from the ixycodine I am taking for a bad hip. I am so tired now.
I decided to just keep moving forward with this divorce.I asked my husband this week, if he would like to go to Florida by ambrack, he never did a thing about it. I was trying just to make a last ditch to save marriage....I guess not....
I am sorry you are feeling ill and it appears things are coming to a head.
Try to stay strong and keep your health in order.
Instead of focusing on what youre losing and all of the problems popping up, try to count your blessings and work on solutions- starting off small will help your confidence and before you know it, you go from taking little teeny baby steps to giant leaps.
Good luck, :)