Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I sometimes cannot bare the pain, and feeling alone so I try to drink, to fill the void and emptiness. I keep repeating my same patterns because I feel like deep down no one will ever truly love me. I struggle every single day with feeling like I'm not good enough. I sometimes find myself feeling better for a couple of days and then fall back right into this feeling. My partner and I argue a lot, but we can't leave another because we love each other so much and cannot walk away. I don't know how to fix this feeling. Depression and anxiety are all I know anymore.
Of one type or another. If you are not an alcoholic
Then Alanon/Coda both are great groups to help
with those issues. Therapy helps a lot too, HUGS
Take a marker (lipstick) write it on every mirror in your house. Post it in every room in your house! And just wait for the miracle to happen!!
You shouldn't feel unlovable. You need more self-esteem. I've found the best way to fell better about myself is to do something I'd be proud of. Help others, work hard, learn something new.
Many years ago I decided to be a really "good" person. I take pride in that. I have lots of faults, but I know that I'm a good person and someone should love me. I'm a good husband. I'll always have that.