We're all here for you.

Can you plan something fun for yourself? What kinds of things do you like to do?

If I have an empty weekend like that and I am feeling lonely, I might

Spend it exploring a new bookstore
Get a massage or a pedicure
Call a friend to see if someone can meet for lunch
Get in my car and go explore a new town I haven't been to before
Buy a ticket to a sporting event
Go see a movie
Buy a new plant or two for the yard and spend some time working in the garden
See if there's any live music on in town and get dressed up to go
Take a last minute art class

It really helps to get out of the house and give myself something to look forward to.

I'm sorry about your recent breakup. Here's to better days ahead!

I feel the same way about the weekends. They are the hardest. Keep busy. Clean out a closet or do a project around the house. Go for a walk. Cry when you need to but keep going

check in here at the end of the day

feeling surprisingly okay this morning. no tears :) having dinner with a friend tonight - signed up for a volunteer event for next weekend. trying to move forward

That's great. It won't happen over night but just enjoy the small steps you are taking. I know it's hard I am right there with you. I had some very sad moments today but also accomplished some things and hopefully am one day closer to being healed from this painful heartbreak. Keep sharing

Hanging in there. trying to remember I did nothing wrong with "the boyfriend" it was his issues not my problem. doesnt mean Im not worthy. I have an appointment with the therapist Ive seen off and on for the last year tomorrow. trying to heal

If you survived divorce you will survive this. You can and you will.

You got through your divorce and survived! For a lot of us, it was our biggest fear and once you get through it and get to the other side you realize there isn't much that is worse.

Another break up sucks. I don't know how long your marriage was or how soon afterwards you started dating so it's hard to comment. I will say this. I've heard from many people that the book "It's just a fu#$ing date" is very good.

I am going to down load it to my kindle after I finish the book I'm reading now. Sending hugs and support your way.

http://ilostitinthedivorce.com/

I love Tulip's suggestions! And I like the positive encouragement in this thread. I would like to share that I experienced a feeling of great loss from a breakup that happened in my first relationship after my divorce. The feelings of loss, however, were actually not so connected the breakup itself. It was sad, but the breakup was actually not the end of a deep emotional bond. What I actually was feeling was the pain from the long buried divorce itself - it was like old wounds reopening. Wounds that I thought had healed but apparently were not. I found myself, at least for a period, re-experiencing the cocktail of anger, grief, and loss that I had felt in the immediate aftermath of my divorce. The negative feelings were toward my ex-husband, not the person with whom I had just broken up with. I also will share that the feelings did subside and rather quickly too.