Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
How do you lose attraction?
I think with long term relationships you grow too familiar. And by the sound of what you have shared on DS of your situation you two have gotten into a rut of sorts. Working hard to stay a float isn't easy. Neither is being a stay at home Mom. It all sucks the life out of you. Perhaps a total reorganization is needed. Find a cheaper place to live so you don't have to be away at work growing further apart. Ask her parents (since they seem to be so concerned) to comit to covering babysitting so you two can have a date night. Attend the date together....don't date other people otherwise the plan doesn't work. ;p
The basis of a good relationship is the foundation of a freindship...when beauty fades...and we start to gain a few...etc.
What gets you through that proverbial "rut" is friendship...laughter..is sexy...
...on the other hand...you can always go to the lost and found...
...be well...Rman *daps and poundz*