hey mate thats Awesome good on you ! do you think it would work if i even though we have spoken now but i have cut off contact ?

Glad it worked for you but most of the time it doesnt... Good luck to you

I think "No Contact" is generally a way to allow us to let go and start the healing process. However in some cases when the breakup is not fatal, sometimes a partner just needs time to think things through. The latter seems to be your case, as it was mine also.

Either way, it does seem to be a good way to handle it. If we do truly love someone, we have to be willing to let go, totally and completely, as painful as it might seem. It's really best for both parties. If it's meant to be, it will be. If not, it's best to not prolong the pain and suffering.

Best of luck and I do hope you two can work things out and be happy together. :)

I'm very happy for you. Make sure its going to work, I would just hate to see you go thru this again. Best of luck!!!

Yes it does! Used it myself with great results. Good luck and I had read your other post so I want to add GO SLOW.

yes good luck and be careful

As Misred & Kook said, Go Slow and Be Careful.

My girlfriend and I both agreed our relationship progressed way, Way, WAY too fast. This time around we are taking it a bit slower, though to tell you the truth it just doesn't seem to want to go slowly! ;)

Another thing I did was had a very open discussion with her about trust. She's really been hurt and badly by several men in her life, including her ex-husband. She admits she has a trust issue. I told her if she does want a long-term relationship with me (and she says she does) then it's essential she trusts me, as I trust her implicitly. If she can, we can continue, otherwise it's in both our best interest we part as friends. I guess what I'm saying is make sure any issues around the breakup are discussed and understood by both of you.