Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
5 days in no contact with unfaithful spouse! I have a feeling she text or call when she knows I get my paycheck tomorrow! I am so glad I initiated it, it has helped me gain control of my emotions and take a clearer look at the reality of divorce. Spoke with attorney yesterday who suggested I wait a bit to file, until my wife starts making money again. Otherwise I might have to pay her alimony. Overall it has given me the opportunity to really think about the evil she inflicted on our family, the shame she has brought to my good name, and embarrassment she has dumped onto our son. High schoolers can be pretty crappy, kids heard parents starting rumors then it got all around school. My satisfaction comes in knowing my wife has been humiliated and feels like everyone is talking about her. Duh? Didn't think about that when you were sleeping with my best friend? I'm sorry you are embarrassed to go the club now! I'm not! I didn't cheat!
Is easy. I still had to numb up during my separation
To stay sane and in control during our little bit
Of encounters. We used a notebook and lawyers
But still coshared the property and the financials.
I survived it by numbing up and He also had a
business on the property.
Try not to think of her that way as hard as it is,
Thats on her and there is not much you can do
To change any of it. I don't even put the GF in
My head, its my ex that is accountable and he
Was the one i was married to.
I know your setup is deeper you got double
betrayed. Some people thrive on the riskier
behaviors. That again is them not you.
These are things you need to work out, my
Ex would run when he saw me he had guilt
And shame. It still did not stop him from his
Path and choices. He had his mind, heart and
Soul made up and was emotionally Bonded
with another woman.
Keep helping yourself, i still show up at Divorce
care if i need it. There is no shame in keep reaching
Out for help, love and support. This is too much
To do alone. HUGS
is really limited contact until the decree and All
is settled.
I am now "no contact", the only contact is thru
the mail With checks. Otherwise we do not need
to see Or speak. We keep it very surface friendly,
no Slurring on social media or anything like that.
Staying as mature as humanly possible.
The rest is very hard when People ask. My ex
and my divorce Can still stir me up and people
Still ask. I swear i am not going to talk about him
Or the divorce, thats my rational brain speaking
Not my emotional self. I am not real rational about
him and its 18 months of true no contact. HUGS