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morris1
morris1
Hey
This ass passed me in traffic and did not acknowledge me at all. 11 years and this is what it has come to. He just look at me like he was shocked and continue on. I look at him as if he was a stranger to me. This was the first time this has ever happen out of all the other time he has left me. I handled it well at that time I did not care. He is such a ass.
Friday someone called for him for employment! Why is he still using the home number, and using the resume I did for him. This is this the fourth person who has called him for work.
Well guys I am getting better and I can't wait to move forward and start dating again.
Thanks to you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MsBlank1
MsBlank1
You have a good start, but your final statement about dating again kind of alarms me. You need to heal yourself first before you start dating again. If the divorce isn't final, there still is alot of healing that is necessary before you can think about another relationship....just my 2 cents here.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thats happend to me.Some times I dont want to talk to my ex if I see her out and the same with her .I talk to her more than i want to. Shit like this you can let slide.
hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560
Deb is right--I'm concerned about the dating comment too.

If it still bothers you that people call your home and ask for him or that he's using the resume you designed for him, then I think you still have some unresolved pain and issues.

I made a rule for myself before I dated: I said I would not date until I could speak about my ex without tears or anger. Good rule to live by.

I'm glad you're getting better, just be careful before you jump into the dating pool.

Hugs!