Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
After the past week of ex-H's antics, snow up to my ears, getting over a sinus infection, boyfriend (who's still married), and someone who's been begging me for 9 months to take me out (he's single), my heads ready to explode!
Boyfriend's marriage has been over for years, his wife started divorce proceedings, called them off, he's starting them again, but, I need to still be kept a secret. He is extremely jealous, questioning everytime a male friend contacts me.
Then there's a persistant man I started to talk to 9 months ago on a dating site. Someone gave me a free trial, boyfriend and I were broken up, so I was curious.
Dilemma ----- When son isn't here on weekends, I hate spending them alone. Boyfriend has events with his son, or just shows up to spend the day with me. Which I love, but it sometimes feels like a test to see if I'm alone.
Then there is this other man--- he's not hard to look at, he's been after me for months, he wants to take me out. It's tempting.
I hate spending weekends waiting, when I could be doing something, but then it reinforces boyfriend's jealousy.
I'm a horrible liar, boyfriend see's right through me.
What would you do?
Boyfriend's marriage has been over for years, his wife started divorce proceedings, called them off, he's starting them again, but, I need to still be kept a secret. He is extremely jealous, questioning everytime a male friend contacts me.
Then there's a persistant man I started to talk to 9 months ago on a dating site. Someone gave me a free trial, boyfriend and I were broken up, so I was curious.
Dilemma ----- When son isn't here on weekends, I hate spending them alone. Boyfriend has events with his son, or just shows up to spend the day with me. Which I love, but it sometimes feels like a test to see if I'm alone.
Then there is this other man--- he's not hard to look at, he's been after me for months, he wants to take me out. It's tempting.
I hate spending weekends waiting, when I could be doing something, but then it reinforces boyfriend's jealousy.
I'm a horrible liar, boyfriend see's right through me.
What would you do?
What would I do? While easier said then done, but if for whatever reason I found myself in a relationship with someone who has a relationship with someone else, I would walk away. I would have walked away the minute I found out. Please know, I am not judging or coming at you. But that is just what I would do. When I found out my ex's real reason for "needing time" was cus of another guy, I couldn't tell her to kiss my ass fast enough. Someone who can't treat me or have respect for me the same way I have for them is not someone I need to have in my life. Especially if it is keeping me from welcoming someone who will treat and respect me as I do them.
Again, i am not saying it is easy to do. When feelings are involved and bonds made, it will take a the jaws of life to make that break. But it is what will free you from the wreckage you may find yourself in.
best of luck