Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I told my dad today about my separation (I hadn't told him because I was was holding on to hope)and I did not want her to change her mind again and my whole family to know once again. He had left my mom almost 15 years ago so I had asked him after all these years WHY. That's was the first time I ever asked him that. He told me that"I left to be happy" and that "all the things that my mom could do would have not made a difference and that he had still loved her but it was not the right kind of love for a marriage". He did not know what had changed, but it did not feel right to be there anymore". This was one of the things that my wife had told me. I could not except that from her but I did from him. I understand that it happens but I don't understand WHY and if these 2 people don't know them... I have spoken to a lot of people about and all the people that were the one that wanted out still had feelings for those that they left behind also did not know and could not give a solid answer as to WHY. For all who want answers, the reason that some of us don't get them is because there are no answers in some cases as in mine so good night all
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That is just the hardest question of all sometimes. Why.. and sometimes there is just not a good answer to the question. I know I would love to know how someone that promises to love you can hurt you so completely and feel nothing as they do it, but that question will not be answered so I have to accept that it happened, that I am not going to get an answer that I am happy with and let go of wanting to ask why.. that happened for me a long time ago when I became detached from him and that life.. I have a new life now and a bright hope for the future and my prayer is that one day you will too... Prayers sent for peace and comfort... Kimmee
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