Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Samuel4586 12/27/2016

It's only been like a week or so without my kids and my wife due to restraing order she out on me for bogus things. I never done. But I do miss her and I'm still siting here blaming my self for her talking to another guy and me freaking out on her about it. I'm scared of the fact we might be over for good and she will never love me and I'll never see my kids again and the night just sucks so much worst then the day Noone to turn to talk to I got nobody. Sometime ending things seem like a good idea and will take the pain away but I know it doesn't make anything better

basnime 12/28/2016

I hope you are still there. Please stay with us. Everyone in this group is in unbelievable pain. We get it. Your kids will miss you so much. Stay with us.

Samuel4586 12/28/2016

Ya I will just the thought feels good but I will never do it my kids I love them I just want them

ripped_my_heartout 12/28/2016

I'm in the same situation. It's been 2 months for me. It took 7 weeks to finally see my kids. I thought I would not get to see them until the new year so it was small victory for me. She's still denying affair but when kids were with me for Christmas on the 23rd she spend the night at her new mans house. All I know is take it day by day. This process takes time and is heart breaking.

Samuel4586 12/28/2016

Ya man its a bunch of bs but if I had my kids I guess I would be alright but I can't even see my kids what so ever or her can't even talk to them or I go to jail. Which is bs I really think my wife has alot of problems and I know are marriage Def have alot of problems but instead of trying to work it out I guess she runs away from her problem but I know it's hard and it will get better. I know for sure she will start missing me and wanting me back I hope she just not going to be to late be for it is way to late and I'm gone for good and it will just be for my kids. But I do love my wife and I am hurt by this whole thing... I'm sorry about ur situation I hope things.. get better for you. Are u guys ever gunna try to work it out for the the kids

basnime 12/28/2016

I'm glad you're still here. It's hard as heck to stay and fight with no resolution in sight. Focus on your little ones everyday.

Samuel4586 12/28/2016

Ya I will focus on them but to be honest thas even hard to do cuz she took them from me and I can't even see them till the courts get off there ass and puts a hearing for me

stardust7 12/28/2016

Samuel, I'm sorry to hear your story. I know it well. I was the stepfather-never had any kids of my own but it still hurts and I'm not sure the family will ever let me see the kids. They like the family forge on in a lot of denial so for what I understand the kids see have a pretty good idea what happened (ex was caught in an affair and some other things). It's been 8 months and still hurts but gets better in stages. It will for you too. Get some help both for yourself and to help guide you to be able to see the kids somehow (don't do it wrong on your own causing a permanent block to the kids). Stay here too. There are tons of us here hurting like you and lots of good support.

hopefuleddie 01/09/2017

Hello,
I can imagine how you feel, and how quick you would erase all of this if you could. Please hang in there for a few of days (as she might still be very upset), then slowly initiate apologetic gestures. Also, you might want to talk to a licensed counselor who can guide you in through this. If you need help finding resources to help you, checkout this link [ http://bit.ly/2iVW56i ] or google.

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