Breakups & Divorce Support Group

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New and terrified.

genebean12
genebean12

my boyfriend and I just broke up and I am devestated. We have been dating off and on for 9 years and I feel like I am completely alone now. Everyone has their own lives and couldn't believe I ever got back with him anyways. It was time and I do know it was the right thing but I feel like no one could ever love me and my chance just ended. He was the only person I felt completely comfortable with and I don't know how I am going to get through life without him.

tejema
tejema
I understand how you feel. Earlier this year my relationship with my boyfriend of 4.5 years ended and I felt the same way - devastated, so cared of the future and I really though I may have lost my shot at love and the "happy ever after." It's terrible but I promise you will work through these feelings. I am in the process and have some panic attacks and crazy anxiety curve balls thrown my way but I'm still powering through.

You need to take time and feel the feels. Remember all the reasons why this relationship was no longer serving you. Do your best to not worry about the future even though it seems impossible. I don't know where I'm heading but I'm hopeful it's better than where I've been. I'm so sorry you're hurting and lost. Best of luck on your journey.

-TM