Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
july 5th my husband of 11 year decided he wanted to separate. I know things have been perfect in some ways. Getting into deeper issues this is not anything that a counselor and can work out and we have to split up. He is my best friend and we want to remain friends. I am scared of being alone. I move out in a week and have never been on my own. The person I turn to for everything will no longer be there. How in the world do I do this?
1. make sure you have a job
2. make sure you have a place to go and stay
3. setup all your bills (water, trash, electric, sewer)
4. have a budget for your bills and food
5. i recommend a counselor (mine has helped me over the last 2 months and I am still going). just go by yourself
6. sign up for a few things you like to do (go on walks, go cook food, go to the gym - I am thinking of taking up boxing)
I was independent before my husband but i have relied on him so much. and he just up and left...he would start arguments if i had a different opinion and go from zero to 100 in seconds and start yelling. and i still wish he would come back but i know i have to keep going. that he will probably never change. i take each day.