Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hey everyone...I need help. My Ex is finally moving out this week Wednesday and she will be taking one of the two kids with her. The other one will be staying until I move or he graduates (this year) whichever happens first. I feel like my family and my life is being slowly stripped from me. Kinda like slowly peeling that band-aid off...I hurt so much...have been close to tears a dozen times today, but can't quite let go. I just wish I could be done with all of this...so much left to do and I hurt so much. Just don't know what to do...had a friend visit this weekend and had some fun, but then lost my cellphone when we went horseback riding again today. (I have horses) I feel like I am dropping down into a deep dark pit...and my bi-polarism isn't helping either. I am still taking my meds, but I can't seem to get over the pain and hurt and utter despair I feel right now...really need some help!!!
You have so many friends here who care about you. Please know that you are strong and will get through this. I'm so sorry you are feeling bad. Hang in there buddy!
Maybe talk to Dr abut uping the meds until things wear off a little. I feel for you, and wish we could make it better, just know that there are many of here to support you. Stay Strong!
Stop and take a deep breath. Take things one at a time. No need to sink into a pit of despair. I try to concentrate on something menial until I get back onto an even keel. Last time I was down, I cleaned the grout on the kitchen's tile floor! Or I find a mindless thing to do like a computer game. That way I don't dwell on the bad thoughts and I pass the time. ((((((HUGS))))))
If you want a laugh I said I'm having YOUR love child in the having Jim's baby thread.