I am a 58 yr old widow raising 2 granddaughters. I met a man 4 years ago, he moved into my home 2 years ago. I wanted to get engaged to show a committment because I was raising teenagers. We got engaged. I told him at that time, I didn't think I wanted to marry again and he was fine with that. After living together a year, I made the comment that "I couldn't believe him when he said he would do something" and he left me immediately and moved back into his home. A few days later he apologized for suddenly leaving, asked me to forgive him and let him move back in. I let him move back after a long talk and he promised he would never suddenly leave. We would talk things out. We had issues we didn't talk about and a year later he did it again, only worse. He showed up with a friend and a trailer and announced he was moving out. I was shocked, clueless, he never mentioned he wanted out. I think it was a sudden decision based upon his unhappiness with us and I recently gave him the "silent treatment" for a week or so.
He says he loves me but can't be with me. I think it we talk, we can work out our problems. Friends and family say he is not the one for me and I will always be worried that he will just walk away again. They are right. I love him and want him back. Should I just let him go or try to get him to work things out. I honestly don't know if he will even want to try again. He said that he was going to tell me he needed a break from me but didn't get the opportunity because I was irrational. I was in shock, hurt and very irrational when he came home with a buddy and said he was moving out. I apologized for my crazy, irrational behavior. We have had alot of text threats of calling cops, his refusal to give back house keys, etc. He has never apologized for his behavior. I am the one trying to mend fences. Initially, I felt he can't be trusted, he did it again after promising he would never suddenly leave without talking first. Should I even try to discuss rebuilding our relationship. Not move in together. Start again living apart and see how things go. I need advice
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