Do you understand what caused you to cheat, and do you think it is likely to happen again?

My personal way of dealing with that trust, was to let everything out to my wife. My phone code, my Facebook password, everything. It’s then their choice to keep tabs. If you have nothing to hide the trust will build exponentially

You're going to have to give her time for her to trust you again. Just be consistent in what you are doing to prove to your girlfriend that you will be faithful again. It will take consistency and time.

Find and read the short book, "How to Help Your Spouse Heal from You Affair" by Linda J. MacDonald. It is just a 2-3 hour read. If you completely own the the tasks in the process and are committed for the long journey ahead of you, she will come to trust you again. I also recommend she read it as it validates the emotions she is struggling with which then allows her to begin to work through them. Good luck!

Cheating is a hard thing to overcome. Your lucky she is understanding and it will take some time for her to trust you. She is obviously being patient with you by taking you back, now be patient with her. She atleast deserves that.

Hey Ovelarde,

I am sorry to hear about the difficult situation you are in. Trust is one of those things that can be Difficult to regain once lost. It is a hard journey back to recovery in the relationship but it definitely is possible. I pray as you confront this situation you are up against that you are successful on this endeavor. If you don't mind me asking, what have you done practically to restore trust with her?

Blessings!

how did she find out you cheated ? you told her or she found out ?
do you know why you did it in the first place (impulse ? your needs/wants not being met regardless of whether you communicated that issue before cheating?) and have you discussed what caused you to act in such way with her and is willing to work out the issue together ?
since this has already happened and cannot be undone, might as well you take this opportunity to ask yourself what your needs/wants are, know more about yourself and understand the effort you have to put in to have peaceful and harmonious relationship with her.
Maybe you are not right fit for her or maybe you are better off in different kind of relationship (open relationship?
Regardless of whether you have issue or you have issue with her or bit of both, I think this is good opportunity to either further strengthen your relationship (truly regretting your mistake, re-appreciating her value you have forgotten overtime or have taken it for granted, getting to know more about one another in deeper level as you open up more with issue you both have etc…) or end the relationship if it serve no good to anyone involved.

Stop cheating. Stop trying to control the situation. Give her time to decide if you are the self-centered person you seem to be in your post.