Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
You only care about yourself,
To you there is no one else,
Who would be worth your time...
To try and understand their mind.
You criticize my every move...
Then turn around and do it too.
You think you are the cats meow
But you are a heartless selfish cow.
I hate the way you treated me,
Hate the way I let you see,
What was right and truly me.
I provided you an ego boost,
I let you win, you ruled the roost
you kept me down, and "in my place"
Just so you could save some face.
You made me feel so very small.
You killed my dreams, you killed them all.
And when I finally went your way
You'd simply laugh and casually say,
it's not enough, I want more.
I don't care if it makes you poor.
And when I gathered up my strength
You went to extraordinary lengths
To knock me down a peg or two
There is no way I could be better than you.
And when I left, you pulled me back,
You made me jump into the sack.
Just so you could be the one,
To leave me in the deadly sun.
Exposed and naked I lay dying
While your ego took off flying
Because it would never do,
For me to be the one who left you.
So here we are, we've come so far,
Together we have made this life,
With me your loving faithful wife,
And you the one who gets to choose
To walk away and leave me used.
But now I know you where never there for me
And so I thank you, I'm finally free.
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I feel so dirty and used I was drunk and passed out at a party when I came around some guy was on top of me rapeing me he covered my mouth and told me to shut up afterwards he got up and got dressed and said I better not tell anyone I found my friend and reported that I had been raped after having medical checks and them getting DNA I've taken the morning after pill IAM just so depressed and...
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Upon his departure, he remarked, "I am in many people’s pockets; no one will believe you." Have you ever grappled with the silence that follows sexual assault, where the perceived impossibility of being believed necessitates self-censorship?


If those are your words a huge congratulations and a big hug for finally being free of him!!!!
My thanks also for sharing this.
I have not learned about the stages of grief... I'm going to look into that... I have never properly grieved before and I realize I must do that in order to move on from this painful marriage
My kitchen. An now after getting tested since my husband wouldnt. Im good. Now i have sex with him because i dont want anyone else but i dont specifically want the perso im married to now. He doesnt even tink about my emotions. He just knows im bound by the vows i took in truth. An we still hsve. 7 months on this lease we both need to finish in order to get another place separately. He refuses to stop talkig to other women. He says he isnt a sexual person an after 5 years i find him face down in some girls crotch. Im a very calm civil person but people see me as a doormat. Or like im excepting his cheating. How can. Move on wile im still married an not cheat? I need companionship friend ship an someone to remind me there is life after this an i can make it 7 more months an not hurt myself by leting go of my marriage.