Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I gave up dating all together last year as I know I am not really dateable. I got an email from a young and attractive women and being on old unattractive guy, I wrote her back. We dated long distance for 4 months. It was too bumpy of a road with many upsetting arguments and so on. We agreed 2 weeks ago to have finally end it. She called me briefly a day or two later for 5 mintunes and small talk. That night I reached out and I got such a cold response that it felt like she must of met someone and was with him that night. Her cold and brutally mean responses set off my full anger and I said stuff I wish I never did. I am suffering both a broken heart and extreme guilt for the things I said. I don't feel like living at times like this but I just keep going. Thanks for reading.
Work on yourself and seek therapy it can be
Very productive in the areas you need to work
On to feel good about yourself.
Dont let another person, you dont even know
Well Get you down. I have no interest in dating
Again until i am healed, guess why i would Find
or be attracted to the wrong type.
Keep reaching out to good healthy loving
People. Come on here and vent away many
of Us have the same issues wether short or
Long term relationships.
With the guilt just sit very quietly and get in
There very deep and forgive yourself then
Forgive her then just stay away from her and
Let it go. NO CONTACT. HUGS
he does not care. He is on his own path.
I need to let it go and let God. I am just not there yet,
Even after all my ongoing support groups, therapy and
Going to church. I will be 60 next month that stirs me Up
but when the time is right i truly believe the right One will
appear and if that does not happen then it Is meant to be.
That medicine is pretty old, yikes i guess it still have little
Strength left in it. HUGS
Many in my divorce care group Were and it can numb
you up, some couldnt Even get angry.
I had to work thru a lot of rage and toxic anger And a
lot of other unhealthy emotions and feelings. HUGS
You said you gave up dating, so how did you two meet?
If you never met in person, did money change hands at all?
I'm curious about the scam aspect as well, as some will work their prey for months.
I got suckered twice in the first week online -- I totally fit the profile. -- 50 something, coming out of long term marriage, new to online dating. Luckily intrigued it out on the first week, but still, it's creepy and maddening. And I learned their tell and saw a good 5-6 others that liked my profile. Ugh.