Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Outstanding1965 12/30/2007

I can't type much right now, I'm to upset. I got my answer ( I knew what it was going to be ). It's time for us to move on. She can not commit to working on us. She really never had. She admitted that in the fall.

My heart is ripped out of my soul. I must now figure out how to grieve my loss. I will have to figure out how to let the love I have for her become a different kind of love. A friendship type of love, not a love of a soul. HOW................

CanadianRose 12/30/2007

Time...

I know how you feel... and really... it takes time..

you can try crying...I like to cry... cleanses a bit...the outpouring of raw emotion... I cried a lot... still do occassionally.

I fully understand the heart ripped out of the soul.

never goes away...time just makes the hurt dull...and fade a bit...slowly.

(((((HUGS)))))))

CanadianRose 12/30/2007

deleted_user 12/30/2007

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deleted_user 12/30/2007

I am so sorry. It is so hard to hear this from someone you love. Mine told me the samething, it still hurts daily.

deleted_user 12/30/2007

So sorry to hear it my friend...time is all that I can offer...as you know I am sharing your boat with time and if I could invent a remote to fast forward time, I would share it with you. Hang in there.

deleted_user 12/30/2007

Won't lie, it won't be easy. I thought I wanted to die, that I would not stop crying, felt all dead inside. It still hurts like hell, but I don't cry everyday now. I want to live! There will be lots of ups and downs. For me, still more downs than ups. But...we all will be here for you, to listen. I wish you strength and courage.

deleted_user 12/30/2007

sorry. guy. mine did the same thing to me. but im not gonna be her friend. too late for that shit. i'll never speak to her again.

deleted_user 12/30/2007

I've been married for32yrs so I do know how you feel for I find that it's just one at a time and I don't think you will never totaly not have love for her I know for me I find it hard to let go some day I will i guess stay here on DS and we will do our best to help

bdrsuperstar 12/30/2007

Me too. Really hard thing to hear and even a harder transition. Been about few months for me and it's a little better. Hang in there and sorry.

deleted_user 12/30/2007

I am so sorry. I know how painful this is.
I still feel the way you do. I do not know waht to tell you.
It does get a little bit better bit by bit.
We are all here for you.
It just really hurts. I am so sorry......
((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

LisaACOA 12/30/2007

Oh Mike, I am so sorry.
I really feel for you. This gutt wrenching pain will lesson. You will be okay.
I promise. You have so many people who love you and care about you. You are not alone. I am here if you need to talk.

GOD BLESS YOU AND GIVE YOU COMFORT AND PEACE.

Love and Hugs,

Lisa
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deleted_user 12/30/2007

I'm sorry you're going through this. It's so very painful to want someone to care as much as you do about the relationship only to find out they don't. It's equally hard to realize that you must go through all the pain and sorry that comes with that knowledge and there's no easy way around it. It gets better, mostly, with each day, with a few grey days in between. Hope the pain lessens for you soon.

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