They are in love now, because its all new and the sparks are flying, but moving in together after that short a time is a huge gamble. That feeling doesn't last forever and they could hit a major wall in a couple months. Then what?

That is their path to follow, however. Yes, it is devastating, but it doesn't have to consume you. Let yourself cry for a while, then set a time aside today when you will think about what you have in your life to be happy and grateful for, then go out and do something nice for yourself. Call a friend, watch a funny movie, go for a walk. Anything to take your mind off of them and put it on YOUR happiness.

Take it one step at a time for now. Its okay to be sad, but its not okay to let it rule your life. Giant hugs to you, this is very painful to go through.

Thats the deal it does consume me and i dont know how for it not to. Its all I can think about. I really thought after he filed for divorce and it was final we could have something. I really thought he could be the one for me. We had everything
in common and got along so well.

Do you go to counseling? It might be a good idea. A good counselor might be able to help you to be able to change your thinking or give you some coping strategies.

It's difficult but it really is time to think about you.

I know how you feel. After the few months of the cheater ex and his little slutface dating, they moved in together and got engaged. I felt this way too. But now, all I can say is its hard to see happen. But I am so much more happy on my own. Will I love again? Who knows. But now I can be me.

Do yourself a favor tonight. Go get some nice bubble bath, a mud mask, and a nice bottle of wine and have an awsome bath. Make yourself a nice dinner or order in. Thats my plan for tonight.

I'm sorry you are going through this.

((((((Hugs)))))

Why couldn't it be you???? Seriously???

Thank god every minute of every day it isn't you. That girl is in for a world of hurt.

They both say they are the ones for each other and they are so in love. Cant believe they are doing this to their kids. He has 3 boys that live with him and she has 1 daughter. He had his boys change school for the second time n 1 school year. Wtf maybe it is freaking love if there is such a thing

Whatever it is = is no longer any of your business. He has made his choice publicly and followed through with it. He is where he wants to be. End of story.

Wallow for a day or two - and then move on. It's done and dusted and not worth wasting any more of your precious time on.

I know and I really wish I could get past it and move on but for some reason he still has a hold of my heart and its all I can think about...