Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Today was my daughters 1st communion, I felt like I was going to lose it in the morning cause he wasn't going to be a part of it, even when I went to pick out the menu for the dinner 3 days ago, I left the restaurant crying cause again he wasn't going to be a part of it. But I kept thinking and telling myself this morning, why are u getting upset over someone who doesn't care, this is ur daughters day not his, so I calmed myself down and dressed my daughter (she looked beautiful) my son and myself, we went to church, my family was there and we had a little party for her afterward and she was happy and that's all that mattered and i was actually ok with him not being there, I enjoyed myself cause I saw how happy my daughter was and that made me happy and the people that truly love me were there as well. So I had an ok day today, I hope tomorrow will be as well and the next and the next, maybe there is hope of feeling better.
hugs
the grief. Be gentle and kind to yourself.
There is no magic formula for grief and everyone is
a little different. i am glad you are going to therapy
And helping yourself move thru this.
Many times our own old wounds will surface and it
makes it all that much Harder, it took me a long time
To detach from my ex even with no contact, HUGS