Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Nam 12/29/2016

I dont want divorce. But things are nt working out. And it is going to happen. M feeling heavy n sad. I love him but i know that it is always better to stay at peace than to be in unhappy relationship. I will be divorced. I dont like breaking relationship. M left with no hope.

cleigh 12/29/2016

Why are you left with no hope? Are there any children in the relationship? If you love him, why is the relationship unhappy?

Alone 12/29/2016

I don't want a divorce either but I'm not happy and being treated very poorly by my alcoholic husband who refuses help. I'm trying to build my own strength to get through this. But it is so hard because I still love him. I don't see him changing and me living like this for rest of my life. Divorce has to be considered as an option as much as that's not what I want.

SBC1238 12/29/2016

I never wanted a divorce either nor did I think I would ever be divorced. It took a long time to realize, but it was the best thing for the both of us. People change and grow apart. Who wants to be with someone that doesn't want to be with them? It just means you haven't found the right one yet. Take things day by day, minute by minute.

Nam 12/30/2016

@cliegh I lost my baby in jan 2016. Itwas a normal delivery . He couldnot survive because he was 500 grms. I miss my baby n now my marriage is falling apart

linefault 12/30/2016

Nam sounds like you have been through a rough patch. Have you thought about a daily devotional? Max Lucado is awesome for these.

SBC1238 12/30/2016

Wow you have been through so much! Take care of yourself. I am here if you want to talk - message me <Hugs>

Nam 01/02/2017

SBC1238 Thankyou for kind words...surely will msg you :)

Nam 01/02/2017

@linefault hey, will check him out..thanks a ton :)

judyc1008 01/04/2017

Hi Nam,
Wow, that is so hard and I understand. I am divorced also. Have either one of you considered going to counseling? If not together, then what if you went by yourself?

Keep in mind that a lot of people think marriage is a 50/50 thing. It isn’t. It is 100/100. What I mean is that we all have to put in our 100%, even when we’re hurting deeply, as you and your husband must be right now. Maybe putting in your 100% means making sure you’re getting the help you need for your grief before giving up on your marriage. I can honestly tell you I regret my divorce very much, so I just want to urge you to do all you can to save your marriage.
I am available if you would like to chat more.

Praying for you.
Judy

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