Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
A couple months ago I bought a condo in my name prior to getting married to my fiance. Following the real estate transaction and my move into the new place, my fiance decided to end the relationship. We continued to talk after I moved out and I was hopeful he would decide to come back to me however, recently he said we should stop talking completely. That feeling of him moving on devastates me and I have had a very emotional few days. Texting incessantly, calling a millions times, crying on the phone, begging to have him call me, etc. I even went over to his condo twice to see if he was home after he turned his phone off. I can't stop crying and I think the most difficult part is the vulnerability I have shown the last few days. How do I get it back and move on? I forgot how to live alone and be alone and more importantly, love me. Has anyone been here before?
Way or another. I know i begged my ex to keep
Trying after he told me he loved me BUT not in
The same way.
Eventually I gave up on any communications
Because he was often nasty once he had
checked out. We still lived together for awhile
That was brutally lonely.
There usually is no going back Once this
happens. My ex had interest in women and
not in us Or our marriage. Their hearts are
Usually closed off to us and the door is
slammed shut not to be opened up again.
There probably is another woman out there,
Most of them like a nice soft landing.
Therapy is very helpful at times like this to
Help you cope. Keep reaching out to loving
Suppportive caring people. Let yourself grieve
Your losses and heal. Be gentle and kind to
Yourself.
Sorry for all your hurt and pain. HUGS
What about the thought of YOU happy with someone else? Being ignored hurts! You deserve so much better than that. Right now, your wounds are raw and your emotions are all churned up, but that stage will pass and then you will move into an anger stage. I was so happy to be in the anger stage because it gave me power. Have you thought of getting counseling to help you through this rough time? It is helping me tremendously!