Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So it's over. Neither of us said that we broke up. We just complained about each other without reaching a compromise. Our respective works got in the way and we didn't handle stress the best way. I complained a lot and he complained that I was complaining way too much.
I know that going no contact is the best thing to do. I should go on with my life but it is really hard this time cause it's not really his fault or mine...life kinda got in the way and we didn't really knew each other for long so it felt weird to "save" a relationship that was only starting.
I like him a lot. I know it's the same for him.
I almost wish that the reason for breaking up would have been something like cheating or disrespect or whatever. It's not like I want that but it would have made things easier. I'm not the kind of person who believes in luck or any external forces controlling my life that much.
So here I am, utterly confused. Finding it hard to believe that work could get in the way. Thinking about what I could've done better. Fighting the urge to bargain. Wanting him back now.
It sucks
External forces play a huge part in the way we live our lives, external forces are other people, whom, for the most part, are unavoidable contributors to our daily stimulation, unless you are a hermit of course. I was a nonbeliever in luck until I was informed that to be a nonbeliever would bring me none, apparently luck is a state of mind.