I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a hard time. I just recently separated from my husband and I feel that my world has been turned upside down. But sometimes it helps to know that we're not going through this pain alone. So many people have gone through hardships and they got through it. I just keep reminding myself that I will too. Eventually, the pain we feel will go away. Sending you some hugs...

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You're not alone in this.

Crying is not only OK but healthy. Praying is healthy as well.

Ecclesiastes 4:12

Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

This is the most important thing I've found in the process. Get with people you can share/vent/word vomit the things you're going through. An online group like this is a good start. Group therapy, family, friends, co-workers, and your pastor are all good places to get your feeling out in the open and not bottled up.

There are many people here that are more than happy to give you some advice, lend an ear or just plain tell you're not crazy.

Thanks you feeling_lost and lotandrejected for tour kind words. How do I rebuild my life. I gave up everything in my country and travel overseas to be with the one who was madly in love with me. I have no home no job no money. What will I do? Family is helping out right now. Job hard to find. I have to move this month again. Where will I go? Been praying all the time. Have done three novena so far. I was fully independent. Gave up all that for love. I was very dependant on the man who left me. I have no one now. Family will only help for so long. What to do?

I agree the pain will go away i was in a 15 year marriage my divorce 2006
my husband decided he wanted a divorce

I cried so much today. Wish I sleep and don't wake up. If I do I should have no memories of the past.calling upon gos and Jesus but he seem to be ignoring me too.

Hi there,
I am sorry for your pain and heartache. There IS light at the end of this. It sounds like you have faith in Jesus. Remember, He said He would never leave us or forsake us. This is a time in your life when you can lean on Him. Maybe that is exactly what he wants. Sometimes when we are in the valley, we are closest to God. May I pray for you?
Judy

Turn to your faith and some friends. Getting on here was a big step and this community helps each other out. Even when you're alone, just start to talk to God. He's there to listen. We're all in this together and whenever you need to talk, just login!

Thanks Judy and liv94. Jeep me in your prayers.