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countrygirl24
countrygirl24

Hey everyone,this is my first time doing this so bare with me i have no idea what im doing.I am recently seperated from my fiance of 12 years,on the 21st i will have been on my own for a month.I have 2 beautiful girls 8 and 1.I havent been on my own in a very long time most days i dont even want to get out of bed,but with kids i have no choice.He left for another state saying he wanted a better life but has left me alone confused and lost.Any help or advise or friendship is much appreciated.

amurb
amurb
I am so sorry this is happening to your little family. I have been in a situation where I felt alone and like the bottom of my life had dropped out, my husband left me after two years of marriage with two kids in a state where I didn’t have any family living. I don’t know if you go to church or know of one around you but maybe a church could be helpful in getting you back on your feet, sometimes they have mother groups, or groups for women going through similar situations, a church is the only reason I was able to cope and eventually get back on my feet because they rallied around me and helped me out. It’s an idea anyways. Do you have family near you? Friends who could take your kids for a few hours so you can process your feelings?
Osheana
Osheana
Hi countrygirl,
Sorry for his departure and the feelings that you are having.The kids are his?
What is the reason for a (if you dont mind n=me asking- 12 year engagement?
Maybe there are clues/answers in this.When things like this happens- rarely
is it an overnight thing. What are the reasons that he did not consider his life before as "A better life". If it is all too private you can message me I will gladly
lend an ear , 2 ears and a shoulder. Friendship and help is what we are all here for, Be strong So until next time… keep smiling, keep healing and keep thriving because there’s nothing else to do.Use this time in a way that is beneficial to yourself, Hugs