Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Im currently in an in-house separation with my wife. We are currently kind of working at our relationship. Its been 4 months of the in-house separation and working at our relationship for 7 weeks. 7 weeks and shes still not sure if she even considers us friends. She is very resistant to even try to show any affection. For 2 years my life was in limbo, a roller coaster ride. Now I feel my life is on hold and its passing by. I know she is trying but its so little. She is scared to be vulnerable to me and getting hurt. Im putting myself out there for her, taking the chance because I believe in us. The problem is Ive become so lonely, I miss the affection, emotional and intimate connection with someone. I want it to be with her but Im losing all hope that can happen. How do I overcome this overwhelming lonely feeling.
Maybe try acting like you are shy, first meeting her you know play be fun. Like she is some one you really want to meet.. Plane how you are going to talk to her for the first time! How your going to ask her out for the first time. Just like the first time. Just be yourself and do not be scared!! Think I really want to meet her for the fist time. Let us know how things work out!!
There are a lot of us with that sae feeling. I spent most of my marriage feeling that way. Of course it didn't change after we split but and even now I'm dealing with it.....all I can do is keep hope alive and work on myself so I can be ready for the next person to come along. I wish I could invite you over so we could spoon because I don't have an answer for this.