Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
my ex boyfriend basically cheated on me after almost two years of being together, i'm 21, in the beginning he was always talking about getting married and he always did he always told me he loved me and i don't get how someone like that can cheat and not want to talk about it, why would someone not want to talk about it even if we already broke up i mean i'm not the one who cheated?
People don't generally like to talk about things that make them feel bad. Things they have done wrong generally fall into this category. I can't imagine anyone cheating, and then wanting to talk about it to the person they cheated on.
I could tell you "I'll love you forever and never forget you" and then when we break up you can bet I don't love you forever, and I'll do my best to forget you.
You need to take what people say in the heat of the romantic love affair with a grain of salt.
He's broken up with you. It's over. Find someone else. Honestly it's not worth thrashing some dead horse like this. Time will give you a better point of view, but thing is you're young, you've just one one boyfriend, now go out and have a few more, and that will help put this one into perspective.
Each bloke you date gives you a new understanding of blokes in general. They're not all the same, each one is new and has something else to teach. :)