
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

pam96
I went to meet him tonight & I was so hoping he'd show some kind of emotion....nope! I looked him right in the eye & could not even see the person I thought he was. I am so hurt, angry & disappointed in myself for still holding on to that hope. I didn't cry while I was with him but I told him it had to be over for me. I still love him so much but not this person who sat across from me. I know deep in my heart that we can never be together again because the hurt is so deep & I would never trust him ever again. I want to sever it all but I dont know how to let go....I am consumed with thinking about him & driving myself crazy envisioning him with someone else.....How do I let go of all this? It's killing me!!!!!!!!
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Letting Go
To let go doesnt mean to stop caring:
It means I cant do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off
Its the realization that I cant control someone else
To let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try and blame or change another;
I can only change myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.
To let go is not to be protective,
It is to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, complain or argue,
but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish the moment.
To let go is not to criticize and control anyone,
but to try and become what I dream to be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more.