Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am very new to this and I have no idea of where to turn and what to do.... I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. About a year in a half into the relationship we were having bad arguments and he wasnt treating me the same. We had a huge blowout and said auwful things to each other and After I called to apologize... he blocked me. For weeks. I was so hurt becuase I just wanted to make it right before we decided to split. When he finally responded to my messages I found out he slept with another girl and did drugs with her and did drugs with other people. He was a recovering addict. We got back together and he took a while to make things right, and he did for about a month. Then I saw old habits return. The rude comments and the smoking alot of weed again. Not only that... the girl he slept with he made he out to be this fucking model that was out of his league ... I totally disagree. But he made me feel bad about myself by saying she was cute etc. It has effected my self esteem greatly. I took all I can take and I decided to leave. I still love him. But now I can only look back on the good times, I became catious of the future and how may treat me. He was very sweet to me most of the time, but then something would switch and became my worst enemy. I rather walk away than to hate him. I am devastated but I know its for the best. Has anyone gone trough something like this? What did you do to get better?
beautiful life. I think deep down inside you know your worth right? Good for you Thanks for sharing.
It is hard for people to even take that first step. Kudos to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. It is important though
to wish your ex peace on his life journey as well to keep your inner chakras clear of any residue
from the past. Hugs and Best of Luck on your journey.
If hugs help, then here's mine *hugs*
Don't forget to forgive yourself as well. Forgive to be forgiven. And Osheana is so good at powerful leadership. I was fortunate to get her as a friend recently. I hope that you will do the same. It is so very important to center around people who leave no doubt in your mind that you have value. And please don't judge yourself by what has been said and done. Release to new ways of positive thinking. It is your positive power which will change you and bring you forth to a new attitude, happiness and peace. Best to you!