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yendh 11/08/2011

I have made this comparison: A girl is kissing a toad, trying to make a prince out of it. It's just like that girl is trying to make a man out of a jerk.

But sadly, a toad is still a toad. There is no man in a jerk.

I used to be one of those girls.

And you? Have you ever kissed a toad?

deleted_user 11/08/2011

i'm sorry that you couldn't make your jerk into your dream man. better luck next time.

deleted_user 11/08/2011

wolf in sheep's clothing baa'ing all over the place

does that count?

deleted_user 11/08/2011

what is worse, a wolf in sheep's clothing or the missionary trying to convert them?

both styles should be questioned in my opinion.

deleted_user 11/08/2011

I don't know, I believed what he told me at the time that he was converting himself
I didnt try to convert him

why? were you with a missionary?

deleted_user 11/08/2011

i use the missionary analogy because that is the character described in this post as the "girl."

deleted_user 11/08/2011

or is it that the girl sees that the toad is actually a beautiful person and realizes that love and beauty is only skin deep. That one can become attracted to someone when they grow to love them.

Maybe the girl was kissing what looked like a prince in body, but he turned out to actually be a toad.

look beyond appearances. look at who they are and you won't kiss a toad.

deleted_user 11/08/2011

to love, we have to first completely accept the other as is because after the honeymoon phase, this is the person that they will return to being.

if we can't even do this part, we do not deserve a romantic partner.

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