Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi Everyone,
For those of who who have no idea of my story, here it is:
http://www.dailystrength.org/people/3039556/journal/6564780
I haven't been back here in probably a month or more. I just wanted to thank everyone who have helped me get through this painful part in my life. Every time you guys told me "Time will heal", I took it as bull, but you guys were totally right, time is everything. time helps you reflect, grow, and it helps you move on.
I know that I am not 100% better but I would say maybe 70%?...i think that is good enough. It is going to be now 4 months since my "husband" left. I put husband in quotation marks, because he shouldnt even be considered one.
Any wya, I filed for the divorce, he received the papers and we are finishing that up. He has tried to contact me over $50 that i owe him, and when i saw contact me...I mean he has harassed me. I am so proud of myself by not answering his messages.
I just wanted to write this entry to those who are going through this beginning phase. Where you don't want to live anymore, you feel worthless, you blame your self. When the dust settles you will be able to see everything for what it was. Do not give up on your happiness. Being with someone isn't the only form of happiness. Try to be on your own, find your self, be happy with who you are.
When we all find the right person, loving someone and being loved by someone shouldn't be complicated nor painful. I am so proud of the person I have become, even the small little things have made me more independent.
So to all of those who feel you will be stuck in this ditch forever, YOU WILL NOT!!! BUT..only if you put in work. Put in work by loving yourself, surrounding yourself with good people, doing things you couldn't do, and very importantly, going to counseling! It really does get better. Time is so precious when we are going through these painful moments.
Its ok to have fallen for the wrong person, it is ok to have loved beyond measure, that only shows that we all have a pure heart and that we are capable of love. We should pray for those that hurt us, because at the end, they are all really just sad people.
THANK YOU THANK YOU, to all of you have helped me...who have read the same posts over and over again of "I cant do this anymore, I dont want to live" and still have managed to send some kind words my way.
I hope I am of help to any of you here :)
For those of who who have no idea of my story, here it is:
http://www.dailystrength.org/people/3039556/journal/6564780
I haven't been back here in probably a month or more. I just wanted to thank everyone who have helped me get through this painful part in my life. Every time you guys told me "Time will heal", I took it as bull, but you guys were totally right, time is everything. time helps you reflect, grow, and it helps you move on.
I know that I am not 100% better but I would say maybe 70%?...i think that is good enough. It is going to be now 4 months since my "husband" left. I put husband in quotation marks, because he shouldnt even be considered one.
Any wya, I filed for the divorce, he received the papers and we are finishing that up. He has tried to contact me over $50 that i owe him, and when i saw contact me...I mean he has harassed me. I am so proud of myself by not answering his messages.
I just wanted to write this entry to those who are going through this beginning phase. Where you don't want to live anymore, you feel worthless, you blame your self. When the dust settles you will be able to see everything for what it was. Do not give up on your happiness. Being with someone isn't the only form of happiness. Try to be on your own, find your self, be happy with who you are.
When we all find the right person, loving someone and being loved by someone shouldn't be complicated nor painful. I am so proud of the person I have become, even the small little things have made me more independent.
So to all of those who feel you will be stuck in this ditch forever, YOU WILL NOT!!! BUT..only if you put in work. Put in work by loving yourself, surrounding yourself with good people, doing things you couldn't do, and very importantly, going to counseling! It really does get better. Time is so precious when we are going through these painful moments.
Its ok to have fallen for the wrong person, it is ok to have loved beyond measure, that only shows that we all have a pure heart and that we are capable of love. We should pray for those that hurt us, because at the end, they are all really just sad people.
THANK YOU THANK YOU, to all of you have helped me...who have read the same posts over and over again of "I cant do this anymore, I dont want to live" and still have managed to send some kind words my way.
I hope I am of help to any of you here :)
70% my butt.. I'd say you're 95% there. Everything you expressed is the foundation, now you just let it all solidify. That takes time, too, and practice.
Good job :-)
I am so very glad you are doing so good.
Thank you for sharing, lots of people need to read your story.
Keep up the good work and enjoy your life!!!!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am still waiting for the worm to turn, so to speak but I am getting there and feeling much better from when I first got here...
It gives me some hope that this nightmare might shift