get a lawyer and put a restraining order on him and her and consider filing harassment charges against them. what they did was a criminal act and you should not tolerate it.

lastly, change your phone number.

they are scum for saying such things. you have to push them out of your life for good.

OMG!!!!!! What kind of 50yr old or 34yr old (if she was the encourager or texter) needs to play 12 yr old games?!?!?!?!

I'm soooo sorry they are taking their guilt and insecurities out on you. It's silly for them to be so hurtful and mean.

I would do as Clyde suggested and get a restraining order, and if you are in anyway starting conversations with him (not that they should end this way, regardless) maybe it's time to just start keeping your distance. I know you are hurt and angry, and I only say this, because I know what I have done and how it has ended. The need for contact from him is overwhelming, but then you wind up being even more sad (ok maybe these words are for me).

Stay strong. Your worth doesn't come from him. He is who is he is because of him no matter who they try to blame. Eventually she too will be the ex.

I don't know what yo say to make you feel better. They are a holes. Let them give each other diseases :-)....take care....oh and yeah.....what Clyde said

Well, did ya say that?

That is really pathetic. Please Save all that stuff. You may need it later. Document everything you have, but for your own sanity, I would block them from everything, starting now.
I do find it ironic that he is with his wonderful new girl friend and all they can think of is YOU!!!!!!!!!!! I guess they have nothing else in common they could be doing together!!!! They are a sad, unhappy couple, trying to get their jollies by hurting someone else.
Please consider the source and realize it isn't even worth thinking about. Please go no contact and don't even think of contacting him. That's what he is trying to goad you into doing.

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You never want to be near a man who is capable of saying these horrible things to you. Nobody should have to deal with this abuse. I am so sorry you had to hear that.

WTF is wrong with people?

At what point did some people totally miss the whole "how to behave socially and with tact" while growing up?

God, I can think of so many trashy, nasty things you could've said, but hell be damned, carrying yourself with dignity and grace is always the best (and HARDEST) way to handle bullshit.

Thank GOD you are not involved with this effing loser anymore. And, as a 34 yr old, I am ashamed that she has so little respect for herself than to bang a 50 year old who talks/treats women like this.

Trash.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this. If I knew you, and could morph into you for a minute, I would bitch slap him for you. (ok, so maybe that's not dignified, but uuuuugh!)

These two are obviously mentally ill. I would certainly report them both to the police.

I am sorry, but they are both gross, good riddance....shallow....you're closer in age to her, than he is....whatever....they both suck, block em!!!

You all are amazing! This is exactly what I needed to hear! I didn't play their name game... I just kept asking them if their relationship was so boring already that they had to resort to texting me as a form of entertainment! Once I started to ignore them they quit after a couple of texts. I will continue to take the high road and will be zero contact with him once the divorce is final....thankfully we don't have kids together!

He may have traded me in for someone younger...but it is clear she doesn't have any class!

Tryingto...wish you could morph into me too :)

I think these two were into the drugs or liquor last night and laughing it up texting all that crap. Today is probably a much more different and somber story and hoping you don't do anything about it. Don't reveal anything to them.

I would get orders against both of them. I would state in a petition that you did not block them because you were afraid as this frightening behavior was continuing towards you, your husband left you and divorce will be forthcoming, and you were afraid they were going to come to your location to do something to you due to the hateful messages. You didn't want to block them because you wanted to be able to read what they were saying in case they said they coming to you and you would then call 911 immediately.

Our city courts here have the petition forms online to fill out for protective/restraining orders. Your city court may have them too. You appear before the judge with the petition and he reads it, he asks you questions and then decides whether to sign.

I would go forth and do it. That will calm both of them down. And it would be no contact in any form at all. Also, you would then change the phone numbers for your cell and home phone so they do not have them and our e-mail address.

Ald.. I so agree with many of the posts they must be really bad people to do this. I can't imagine. Do not listen to them... definatley block them.... if you hear anything further from them report them to the police. You do not have to take this... they are the lowest form of humaniod. They don't deserve your time or your thoughts they are both losers. I hope you do not internalize any of what they said
they are like bullys on a playground they are just trying to make you feel bad.... and you are not bad... hang in there... be good to yourself...realize your worth.