Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'm tired...so very tired. Emotionally, psychologically, physically...just in every way... I got broken up with about a week ago or so and it's not a unique situation, happens to most people. Long story short, she failed to mention to me that when we met she was already in a relationship with someone else and have been for the past 6 years... I had my suspicions but decided to trust her, which was obviously stupid of me. The thing is...I'm not even mad at her. I'm hurt beyond belief. Thing is, I'm too good of a person to actually go and tell the guy she's with that she cheated on him with me. I just don't see how that would make anything better in any way. So, she continues on happily with that guy, and I get hurt, then thrown away like a piece of worthless trash. The only thing I wanted from her before I'm out of her life was one call, where she told me the truth and so I could ask some questions and maybe have answers. That's it. Thing is, it's not the first time it's happened to me. It happens every time. I'm convinced now, that I don't deserve any better than what I've been getting so far no matter what I do. Everything feels meaningless and like there's just nothing left for me anymore, like I no purpose in life. I wish it would all just end. I'm nothing more than a mistake that peoole make to then regret and forget about. I don't want to be here anymore... I'm sorry.
She is the cheater and dishonest. You just have
a broken picker.
There is a way to cure that get into therapy for
some healthy guidance. Many times we dont see
the areas we need to work on and then we find
the wrong partner. You are not alone so stop
Beating yourself up and be kind and gentle to
Yourself while you grieve your losses. HUGS
You can grieve because she broke your heart. But don't hold those destructive thought too long. And it's time to think about yourself, do something you love and learn to love yourself more. Think positive and try hard to move on. Big hugs to you.
I am giving the link to a great singles site. They have articles and audios (podcasts) so you can search for stuff that will help you. Here is an article on When Loves Ends.. the different stages of grief http://www.boundless.org/adulthood/2011/when-love-ends, and this other article is also dealing with breakups http://www.boundless.org/adulthood/2011/breakup-blues I'm sorry you're hurting, and pray that you daily get stronger and stronger in healing.